What size is your system again ?
I know my 6 inch rocket - after about 20 minutes or so, can warm me up 12 inches away . . and if I get too close, after a while it is too much even thru the cloths . . . I know, I tried it in a ice cold shed . ..
If you are running a 12 inch pipe, you should have double that heat output . . so yes, REALLY HOT . . .
The best thing I can tell anybody - if there stove is not heating up - is - make sure every dimension is the same size . . . think of the size of the chimney - from one end to the other - NO CHANGES . .
It is surprising how a taller chimney will help too, but that has been suggested . . .
As for the gap in between the riser and the top of the barrel, when I was building my stove, I started with the top of the barrel sitting on top of the riser - yes, touching the top of the riser . . that way, as you add bricks for spacers, - lifting the barrel up, you know exactly how big the gap is up in there where you can't see . . .
For my stove, I start at freezing ( 25 or 30 F ) . . and a 2 hour burn will raise it up to 50 F . . . come out the next day, and it's still 50 .. . another 3 hour burn will raise it up to 70 or so . . but then my shop is insulated R20 all around.
In your case, you have alot of windows . . . with the windows in my house, I cut 2 inch styrofoam just big enough to friction fit . . . the windows go from R1 or R3 to R14 or so . . . just a thought . . . cover the windows with insulation plugs until the growing season starts ?
Also, once my shop gets up over 50 F or so, I can take off my coat and work in the shop . . . so "constantly adding wood" is not a problem . . since I am out there playing . ..
Hope this helps.