This sounds like a great plan!! I am so happy for you that you are able to take the plunge
If you can swing it and can take care of plants during your building period, you could plant your trees in year one - they will take years to become productive, so you'll wish you planted them sooner.
since you're already planning on doing lard and goat's milk, you should look into soap-making; an easy value-added product to your business.
Also depending on your needs, you may want to switch the order of your annual vegetable planting and your animal acquisition:
BEFORE: pigs and goats can clear the land of vegetation via browsing/rooting, and provide free manure for the first plantings.
AFTER: you can grow feed crops in advance to feed the animals, or have them clear your food plots after your first harvest.
Please continue to update this post with your progress (and pictures); I want to live vicariously through your experiences!!

Growing on my small acre in SW USA; Fruit/Nut trees w/ annuals, Chickens, lamb, pigs; rabbits and in-laws onto property soon.
Long term goal - chairmaker, luthier, and stay-at-home farm dad. Check out my music! https://www.youtube.com/@Dustyandtheroadrunners