I've done a bunch of reading about the possible impacts of climate change and in particular, the "bigger, hotter, colder, more rain, drought" extremes that books I've read regarding the long (very long) history of North America imply regarding the future.
I totally agree with Allen
My only real answer to this is to plant diversity for resilience.
If you have a large enough property to work with, I would think not just in the usual "layers" permaculture talks about, but the layers of plant density and height based on typical wind directions and how extreme wind or extreme water will impact you.
To me, this would be extremely important for the OP, as we're already seeing larger and more frequent big storms. Thinking about berms or hugels that could redirect wind and protect plants would make sense to me. A strong shrub layer to protect roots of larger trees makes intuitive sense, but I don't know where to look for accurate info. I know that I heard from my friend in Nova Scotia that had a hurricane go through that experts told them that many plants that survived the storm would die over the next decade from the stress. That allowed them to get started on replacements, but it didn't actually explain what could be done proactively.
OT: Building for those extremes so that you and your house survive would also make sense. I was disgusted when I saw the results of one storm on an entire community in Florida - barely a single building was left standing. Clearly, the building codes aren't keeping up and if you are in a position to build or design your own home to withstand whatever nature will throw at it, it might give you peace of mind.