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answer very gently to being questioned. I am used to being blasted to the mooon if i question people. I am a street fighter type of verbal warrior. I used to be a supportive rather than questioning type of person and now i am confrontational. If you are gentle it could mean you need to do the zen of arguement, it is one of the first things you
should notice about people if you are loooking after them, do they defend themselves at all, faced with agressive people or are they on the contrary too agressive. Do they need to be included in a argumental kung fu program in order to hold their weight in groups or be taught not to anhilate others.
I was right at first, you are male, sorry, at some point i decided you were called Poly. It seemed the women were more detailed and careful in their explainations than the men so I thought you were a woman. Maybe the fun of the computer is that you expectations about people because of their looks don't hardly exist or at least the only way you can find out is from your prejudices about their ways of expressing themselves.
What you do to grow vegetables if your garden is concrete, is an interesting theme. For me, sod is earth with grass on and a pile up of layers of earth with grass on it on it would be rather heavy and hard to plant in and i thought you were jocking. It is interesting to know what you can do if your
yard is concrete and you don't have enough money to get it taken out, I would not be able to take it out either, my husband has money, if he fancies doing something it gets done, if not, well.
I read a interesting way of groing potatoes, you plant them in a dustbin ant the bottom of it and add soil to the bin as th eplant grows untill its full to the top and then, or a short while after you should have potatoes from th etop to bottom of the bin. HOpe i have remembered that right.
I think it was Brenda Gross who was worried about the people suffering from the depression, the truth is i do too only i believe in social security money as well as gardens. Social security isn't usually enough to be a really enormouse help, so gardens are great together with social security, as we call it in England. There must be people in difficulties with concrete gardens and vegetables cost so much so how you can grow vegetables on concrete is really important.
I whatched my favourite film last night, favourite because it gives detailed examples of verbal brutality or verbal keeping down of beatrice at least till she killed them, Kill Bill two . I would use it to teach about bullying if i was to give a
class of the kind.
Beatrice, Urma Thurman, is hopeless at the zen of arguement, most of the villans insult her several times, say hurting things, while she hardly gets a jab in. Maybe she would not have had to kill them if she had kept her end up in verbal smashing, as the other girl, acted by Darly Hannah, the one with a patch does do, Daryl hannah has even wiritten down a list of things to say to take away any conforting thoughts from the dying brother of Bill, to worsen his last minutes, to hurt him verbally. The other characters in the film even manage to talk as if it was Beatrice who manipulated or rather had damaged Bill, which means he had managed to do her down in the group, had manipulating all the observable reality, there is hardly a moment when Bill does not tie knots round her verbal, is not clearly the one who plays the tune, he is even playing a tune in the first and second scene. He is mildly threatening in the wedding and she suplicant. Since when was it the supplicant person who was bullying the menacing one.
His brother gets in several insults and the only thing she manages to do back is spit at him. The disgusting south american pimp in the film humiliates her mentioning that bill shot her as a punishment for escaping him and shows her what a disgustingly humilliating way he treats women who annoy him, there there is a subservient woman in the bar whose lower lip he has cut so as to completely disfigure her face.
Bill has earlier in the film persuaded her to spend two years getting fighting training with a crazy, chinese, assasin, kung fu expert. The scene in the desert when they are on their way to pei mei's, the chinese assasins place, BIll appears to be super nice to Beatrice, he has lit a fire and is playing a pipe for her and smilling and is telling her a story but it turns out the story is calculated to strike cold into her, it is about how absolutely murderouse and completely mad the man he is sending her to is. This sort of behavior is difficult to manage, the niceness seems so nice as to make one feel that one has been mistaken about he unkindness, unless you have your head well screwed on, the trouble is you can't go complaining if everytime someone gets cross with you it is not reaqsonable to expect others to always do what you want but, when are they going to far in asking you for things, like to spend to spend time with a psychopath even though he is the best fighting teacher in the world, and when are their requests reasonable and loving but strict. Beatrice shows the typical signs of a girl who does not realise who is being nice to her and who is not, when she is annoyed with Daryl Hannah character for killing the mad Pei Mei. One or two favours and Beatrice feels well treated, though she has been absolutely crushed most of the time.
When Bill leaves her with the chinese assasine, she askes him whistfully, when she will see him again, he replies he liked that song in the seventies, as in, I dont like that sort of soppy stuff now, a sort of, i don't give a damn answer. Later when she gets pregnant and leaves him because she does not want to bring up a child in the hired killer atmosfere he provides, he comes up all of a sudden with a lot of junk about loving her, the cheat, which he also seems to have filled everyone else with. He has made her look as if it was she that called the shots and played with him behind her back, instread of him that does so, with their mutual freinds.
In the last scene he wants to make her say she is a psychopath like him, that is, he does not only want to do her down, he wants to make her see herself in as bad a light as possible. Indeed the real hurt that he seems to have felt seems to have been that she tried to turn down the life style he approved of, tried to go straight and he wants her to say that she is like him. He minds about this badly enough to come up with a particularly complicated set of circumstances to persuade her to say as much. All that negative suggestion he starts the last scene with, that she was a born assasine, with his long and mildey sleepyfying stories of superheroes, the pain of the dart, pain makes you long to say anything, it makes you want not to bother with other things, it makes you want to centre on your pain. The truth drug that makes you feel confused, when people pretend to have infallible ways of gettign the truth out of you, it always makes me afraid, I am always afraid the horror on my face because of what they are implying aand how damaging it is will be taken as a sign of guilt and i think the drug would amke her feel confused because drugs don't make people more clear and reasonable.His suggestion to her what the truth is, a type of negative suggestion which can influence the thinking of the victim, fantasying out loud about what the victim thinks, unless you imagine the unknown motive of others to be something neutral or positive, is negative suggestion. He also tempts her to tell him what will most does her in that she is a psychopath, with the bribe, i will consider you are a brave person and one i can trust if you say what i want. Brave for blackening yourself, this dare includes the opposite that she would be considered a lier if she did not submit calling herself a psychopate.
He starts inducing psychological pain in the first part of the time in his house. He starts off by having a conversation that makes it obviouse he is educating her child to be a killer. He is rather rubbing in the fact that she had killed a fish instead of damping down any reference to the unfortunate incident, reinforcing the idea of herself as a fish killer. Beatrice had feared her child would, if with Bill, be brought up to be an assassin and there he is on his favorite topic murder, talking about the child killing a fish in the chidls prescense. He is already suggesting she is cold blooded and talking of death in such a way as is likely to make her more so. agri rose macaskie.
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We water with a 1 1/2" hose (we have about three pounds of pressure from the spring and so work with larger tubes to compensate) and it's easy to freaking drench things really quickly. But I know potatoes don't like to be dry. A lesson I won't forget easily now. 
