posted 10 hours ago
I think learning to cook is really about learning to taste.
Edit: Not sure who I'm really writing to here, but I changed my mind. I decided learning to taste is how you become a GOOD cook. Just cooking can be done without taste at all, you just follow recipes.
My advice for learning actually isn't to go right to a cookbook, it's to start with something extremely easy and simple, like ramen noodles. This is what I did when I was a kid, and I'd say it's how I learned.
First you follow the instructions on the package. Then next time (or maybe that very first time if you're brave) you experiment by adding a new ingredient you think would go well in it. As you do it more and more, you try other ingredients, and try adding them at different times, and see how different things combine.
This is where learning to taste happens. How did the two ingredients go together? How did the flavors differ if you cooked them for longer or shorter amounts of time? Etc.
When you eat food other people cooked, try to identify the different flavors. If you taste something you like and can't identify, ask what it is. (You can even do this in restaurants, if you sense you have a good rapport with the staff!) See if later at the store you can find some of that ingredient, and taste it so you learn its flavor. Start experimenting with that, seeing how it affects things you make.
Then (this is also how I did it) as you go you also start to collect little tricks, you develop knife skills, you learn to make a roux, to deglaze, to save and reintroduce drippings, and so on. I never used cookbooks for this, but I did use cooking shows and a few cooking Youtube channels. Chef John's "Food Wishes" is my favorite, I recommend that.