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How to bury a friend

 
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It's that time of year. Our oldest rooster was looking fluffy a few days before Christmas, although looking a little better Christmas Eve. Clearly it was the lull before the storm, as I found him dead Christmas morning. With horrible weather coming in, I felt I needed to get him into his final resting spot before the predicted -9C weather arrived.

I recently got a rescued Malus esopus spizenburg (late fall cooking apple) planted although it will need more than some scraps of Day Lily and a lone Dandelion for company. I dug a hole about 3 feet from the trunk. I lined the hole with an inch layer of sawdust from the cutting shed and put some biochar on top. I put Bilbo in a triple layer of extra large brown paper bag with a mixture of sawdust and biochar in with him, then rolled the bag up around him and laid him in the hole. I then added more sawdust and biochar on top, followed by all the dirt I'd dug out. It's mounded up above the surrounding ground level, but I know it will subside. From what I've read, burying deep is more likely to pollute ground water. This isn't likely to happen with a shallow burial, lots of brown organic matter under and around him, and a tree nearby who will think he's yummy.

Eventually, I need to find a nice board to do a wood burned marker, but for the moment, I found a rectangular stone and two round stones and made a simple letter "B" to mark the spot.

He was a good rooster. I'm prepared to put many of our dead in whatever compost is handy, although I always try to add extra brown, high carbon material under them. But when it's a friend, I try to go a bit further and give them a final resting place that feeds the circle of life and I'll make sure that something with pretty blooms get added when the weather is a bit nicer.

 
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So sorry for your loss, Jay. What a wonderful way to honor Bilbo's life. I'm sure he was lucky to have gotten to spend it in your care.
 
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What Heather said. You treated him with the honor he deserved. I'm sorry you lost a friend.
 
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Oh! Jay, how perfect!  And so sorry for the loss of your friend.

That's the way it will happened for Little Mama.  She's the oldest hen I have ever had, so clever, sweet as candy and the best mother of all time.  She's going to be 12 years old this year and she has a special place in my heart, so thank you for sharing.
 
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You have buried him with full military honours. I can hear the pipers from here. Well done.
 
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Jay I am sorry for your loss. We have done this several times now or at least something very similar. Planting a tree or shrub over the grave of a lost friend is a nice way to honor them and give their final energy back to the circle of life. I have a tree nursery bed out in the garden with saplings and some seed started trees to use as I reforest our little property. This has been my system since we started keeping chickens.
 
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Jay, I'm so sorry for your loss.  My chickens are pets to me as well. I lost one of my hens a couple of weeks before Christmas. She was buried in a place I intend to plant a fruit tree when the bare root trees are available.  
Condolences Jay
 
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So, if you read my post above, you'll see that Little Mama was 12 years old this year.

Little Mama passed away last night and I am going to miss her dearly.  We buried her in a beautiful spot and next spring, I will plant something on top of her grave.  I don't know what I will plant yet but something that will reminds us of her and her endearing personality.

She was the oldest hen I have ever had.  She was small, cute, sweet-natured, smart, friendly and of course an excellent broody and mother.   Rest in peace little one.
 
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Sorry for your loss, Olga. I'm sure you will miss her and I hope her plant enjoys her as much as you did.
 
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Thanks Jay for your kind words.
 
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I buried my dog in my food forest. He is in a guild under a large pile of stones. Many, many types of plants are planted near him. I visit him often. Sometimes I still cry when I do, but it's okay. His mother's ashes will be there soon, along with some of my baby brother's ashes when I have the strength to do it. My own burial spot is picked out there as well. I like the idea of being buried there with my family and creatures I loved very much, among the trees and plants I planted and grew there.
 
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