Welcome to permies Eric! We're very happy to have you with us!
Since you're looking for people to help and your site is developed yet, I would suggest looking for a permaculture designer who is interested in setting up a
permablitz at your location. This gives you an opportunity to meet with a designer, get some things done on your land, and the designer and his/her students or helpers get a chance to gain real-world experience on your site. For more information, they have
organizer guides for creating permabltzes.
SharedEarth is a another good option. It is not just for permaculturey people, and it works by matching up people with land to people who want to garden. Be sure to read their instructions and follow their rules.
Regarding finding permaculture people, it may be worth your time to visit the
Permaculture Global Network and ask around if anyone would be interested in helping you.
On both permies and elsewhere, please be sure to make you intentions as clear as possible and be clear about what you are asking for.
As your site is more developed and you two gain more experience, it may be worth considering joining the
World Wide Opportunities on Organic Farms network. Since you are considering maybe creating an IC or Village, it may be worth posting your project on
Ecovillage Network after you find some people to start working with and gain more knowledge on the subject.
You might also want to check and see if the
Ozark Permaculture Guild is still active.