My first thought is to listen to your plants. They don't like what you're doing. Never mind what the internet says.
I grow potatoes in the ground. But I have tried limited experiments with above-ground growing, and my impression is that the plants develop differently.
In the ground, I think the primary purpose of hilling is twofold: to protect the tubers from exposure to sunlight, and to provide light, fluffy, fertile soil for the plant to expand into.
I can't speak with authority on above-ground planting. But I can't see a reason to hill potatoes in a pot/barrel. The best strategy seems to be planting in a half-full pot and gradually adding soil to keep everything covered.
And watch their colour -- they are heavy feeders. A few drops of
compost tea with every watering, or compost on the surface, but not too much or you'll push the soil basic/alkaline and you might get scabby skins.
It also depends on the variety -- some potatoes tend to push new tubers upward on the main stalk, requiring aggressive hilling to keep the tubers out of the light. Other varieties tend to grow sideways.
Pardon the scattered notes; it's been a long day.
Anyway, the bottom line: Listen to your plants!