Great question, Olivia!
I struggle with this too, every day it seems. I spend too much time thinking about which things I most want to get done in my limited outdoor time!
Part of it is that I like to have several projects going at once, so that if it is too hot, or too cold, or too wet, or too dry, or I need something at the store, or I am too tired, I can easily shift gears and pick up something else and carry on.
Of course, this approach leaves many things unfinished, and a list of things to consider what exactly is the best use of my time on a given day. Which can get overwhelming if I let it!
I try to address this by keeping a running list of the top 3 most important tasks, and refer to that when feeling overwhelmed by what to do next. Can be hard even deciding between the 3! And sometimes, a choice involves half a dozen other sub tasks that the task depends on, so there is that!
As an example, as I mulled over what to do next yesterday afternoon, I decided the most important thing I needed to do was one of those subtasks, i.e., get the bushog off the tractor so I could do other things with it.
But first, I needed to do some mowing in several areas, which is why it was still on. So, I ended up mowing despite the dry and very dusty conditions, because I just couldn’t wait any longer for a splash of rain before mowing. It took up all of my available time mowing and then removing the bushhog, just to get to the point where I can do what I really wanted/needed to do in the first place.
All of that to say, it is important to look at it as a journey, and not a destination. If you are out in the garden getting this done and then that done, you are making progress, bit by bit, step by step. If you feel overwhelmed, remind yourself that this process IS homesteading, each and every baby step. Congratulate yourself on what you got done today rather than fret over what you didn’t. And think about what is the biggest bang for your buck - what will most advance your garden this week. It might just be something as simple as watering or spreading mulch, or it might be something as big as fencing. Balance that against your physical, financial, time and
energy constraints. And accept the inevitable compromise and enjoy the process of doing!