One recording I wish could have been possible was capturing my mum's words yesterday evening. She came in from the plot and just said from nowhere, "It is bare", I looked at her trying to make sense of what she had said and she continued, "the field is bare". I could feel my eyebrows raising and my mouth open so wide. It is one thing to have my mum agree to having
trees in her field, but having her see how bare the field is, is huge, it could be a reflection of how she now perceives things (like it is no longer an external influence, it is internal), i.e in relation with the importance of trees in her place.
It is not the only thing she has done to surprise me with. She made a huge compromise this morning when we were discussing the issue of how we want tasks to be carried out, especially with things we engage the help that we hire, it is not the first time we have been talking about this and it is among-st one of the things at the top of the list on issues we see differently and are trying to find common ground on. We were discussing on routine work for the person who is staying at the plot, and I feel that we would rather do one thing at a time, and master it and then add more things as we go. As opposed to, trying out everything we come across or hear about, especially when we hear someone has made so much
profit from it. I think it keeps us from growing as we are open to be blown anywhere the wind blows, and it majorly frustrates the person we will be working with because we will end up overloading and expecting too much from him in a short space of time. But if we focus on a few things with the plan of expanding as soon as our capacity allows us, we will be able to use our resources to the fullest. We have not agreed on anything, but my mum today just said she is willing for us to work out what it is we think is of priority and we break it down into daily chores (at least as a guide). Anything else that crops up, will be on me and my mother solely and if we cannot do certain tasks we will get help elsewhere, except interrupt the man staying at the plot.
Why I think this works for now is,I believe at full capacity, chomolia and egg sales will be
enough to cover the expenses for the livelihood of the man staying at the plot together with his family, as well as other running expenses, without my mum having to take money from her personal pocket, which she more often does. So we could start by allowing this family to produce the maximum possible from this area. Our job there will be to find all the resources and to come up with the best and easiest and efficient ways of growing chomolia as well as rearing of
chickens and also to
sell the product. If the plot can take care of itself, it means that the family staying there is not going to be an expense to my mother, but they are working for themselves. Then when we have established what we can get from chomolia and eggs, we will be in a position to know how much extra things to add, in order to expand and diversify.
I found a simple solution to a problem I have been having with my flower bed design. I made raised semi circles as small beds for my flowers to allow for as much
water collection between the flower beds and the
lawn, without drowning the two, as there is a lot of water that collects on that area during the rainy season. Unfortunately I had not ridged the sermi-circles to avoid water from flowing down when I water the flowers. I had tried to raise the edges but it would only collapse the semi circles, and redesigning was difficult as I have some picture of what this place can be with the semicircles and a runner plant falling over as a live mulch. Only last week, or the other week it dawned on me that I can take soil from elsewhere and mold raised edges on the semi circles. The place holds mulch better and already the flowers look greener.
I laughed at myself a little embarrassed at how my flower bed came out, but I think for now lets see what is on the ground and acknowledge, but work with the vision in the head, in order to keep the momentum. I will see how the simple solution makes a change in the next month or two.... ha ha ha (
I do not have the embarrassed emoji but it is really convenient at the moment).