“People care” To add onto food stability, home care is one of the things we have been working on, and I believe a home with
enough food and some order can result in a warm and welcoming home, because we will expect less from our visitors. The past month was a school holiday and we had visitors, my cousin and his son. When I learnt they were visiting, it sent shivers down my spine. I was mostly afraid, my cousin’s child would have forgotten me, for some reason it was so important to me, if he would remember. Other things I was afraid of are, if we would be good hosts and if our home would be a good environment for them. They once stayed at my mum’s place for some time, with the intention of having them as long as was necessary, but they left. Then, they were three, with my cousin’s daughter, but she is now married (she is very young) and I feel we as her family, let her down, we were not ready the first time they came to stay with us (but I also know there is nothing as too late, I hope we can be a part of her life, as we develop ourselves and also work on building a relationship with her father).
During their first days, I could tell my cousin was so protective over his child, it completely changed as he trusted us more and more, which was a wonderful thing. They left today and Taku my cousin’s son, did not want to go back, we had to trick him into going back, it felt so good to know he felt at home with us.
We are expecting my grandfather from my father’s side, I hope it is going to be a good encounter. I hardly ever used to be at home when we had visitors around, it is either I was at school or work, hosting people is a really new
experience.
My mother would tell me how they grew up. They had such a strong social network, which had really dark sides but there was a very beautiful side which was broken down by modernization. I have probably mentioned some things in my past threads. It was impossible to feel lonely, villages were true families, and most of their values were the same. There was some social balance across all ages, any grown up held a guardian’s position and disciplining a child was not left only to a biological parent, or someone paid like a school teacher. Imagine if we could merge things we are learning to make life convenient together with the strong social structure that existed…!
Another very good thing today is, all the onions that were brought from the plot, got finished very early in the morning. People are getting used to us selling at our place, and despite a very high rate of inflation we have prices that are almost fixed, well for now and I guess that’s the thing doing the most marketing.
We want to encourage less selling at the plot, which will open up more time for taking care of plants and animals, also the plot will attract less attention and the probability of theft there, (theft is generally on the rise) will be maintained at a minimum.