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As people have asked me for career advice the last few years, one person has tagged my advice as "apathy counselling". I could fill a few hours talking about this, and it will probably sound crazy, but i will try to see if I can do this.
1) when you are at a job, you are usually doing stuff that you would not do if you were at home. You are doing stuff for the money. You are a prostitute. So, are you a $2 whore or a $10,000 whore? What is the difference between the two besides money?
2) In the work world, you can find engineers that appear to have about the same skill level, but some are paid far more than others. And with great pay comes great respect and trust. Their life is much easier. Why do they get more? What are they doing that is all that different? The engineer getting paid more has more job security and is valued more.
3) I think there is a long list of reasons. One way to express part of it is professionalism. Professionalism is not all of it, but, I think it is a large part. Somebody that is professional 99% of the time will get a lot more pay than somebody that is professional 98% of the time. Somebody that is professional 99.9% of the time will probably get double the pay of somebody that is professional 99.0% of the time.
4) And this is where apathy comes in. There are many flavors of apathy. So it is important to have/project just the right flavor.
4a) Expect your bosses and co-workers to be .... human (infinite flavors of flawed, many of which you have yet to experience). Universally. In this company and in all other companies that might hire you. Sometimes (as it sounds in this case) they will be wicked, sometimes they will want you to do silly things and sometimes it will be something weird which the english language has no words. After all, if they were truly awesome, you would gladly work there for free. Imagine that you are the $10,000 whore. You are to please them and get them to shell out another $10,000 later. And possibly tell others about the amazing quality of service. If you expect them to be professional, you will sometimes have your expectations met, but the rest of the time you will be frustrated. But being frustrated is less than professional. If you expect crazy and sometimes see professionalism, things get easier (but watch out, that professionalism you see might sometimes be a flavor of crazy you have not yet figured out). The key is, your job is to enter into a pool of odd people, do awesome things despite the crazy obstacles and then go on to the next gig. If you are apathetic about the crazy and the obstacles because you expected it ... you earned your $10,000. If you get frustrated due to the crazy, then that is very understandable and you don't get $10,000.
4b) Because you are a $10,000 whore, you have lots of money in the bank and a line of new gigs waiting. So you have no fear for getting fired. So if there is any suggestion that your work is less than optimal then the response is not one about defending your work but "If my work is not meeting your standards, then perhaps it is time for me to move on?" If it is a peer then the message is "If you think that my work does not meet the standards of this organization, then I think you need to persuade the director to fire me."
4c) Ever watch "rivers and tides"? The guy creates art then walks away. The art is destroyed by the elements. If you create good engineering and then try to protect it, that is a sign that you care. Instead, create good engineering and know, within yourself, that you did excellent work. Be perpetually prepared to walk away and let it be destroyed by ... people being entirely human.
I gotta go. I am making a feeble attempt to suggest that you consider trying on the right flavor of professional apathy. If you like the feel of it while you are at work, then you might find far greater enjoyment of your workday and you might find that you have become far more valuable - so greater pay, more job security, etc.
None of the things I have said above are absolutely true. These are things to consider in an attempt to find a path where you can enjoy your job more and possibly improve your career path.
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paul wheaton wrote:
Well .... for those that have bought this podcast, what would be the topics for a second podcast? When and if this podcast gets to 40, I will record a second.
the podcast inspired an opinion change on a few subjects
was somewhat enlightened by the perspective you presented regarding gay marriage...Well done.
I would be interested in what it takes to make your empire function...more specifically what I could concentrate my time on to make our home permaculture based business thrive.
Religion, I was a little disappointed it wasn't touched on in this one.
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paul wheaton wrote:A dozen have been sold.
At 40 i would have a thousand dollars. For one podcast on a topic that I feel terribly unqualified to say anything.
Well .... for those that have bought this podcast, what would be the topics for a second podcast? When and if this podcast gets to 40, I will record a second.
My books, movies, videos, podcasts, events ... the big collection of paul wheaton stuff!
My books, movies, videos, podcasts, events ... the big collection of paul wheaton stuff!
My books, movies, videos, podcasts, events ... the big collection of paul wheaton stuff!
My books, movies, videos, podcasts, events ... the big collection of paul wheaton stuff!
paul wheaton wrote:
- another "controversial" one on Software Engineering (not sure what we might do there; lots to say about SE, just nothing worth putting behind a paywall)
- Religion (I do have some things to say about this)
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