This is essentially a relish recipe:
Marilyn’s Green Tomato Pickle
5lb green tomatoes, chopped
2+1/2 lb onion, chopped
1/3 cup salt
3cups white sugar
2+1/4 cups
apple cider vinegar
2 oz pickling spice in cheese cloth bags
1+1/2 tbsp. coleman's dry mustard
1/4
tsp cayenne pepper
Place chopped tomatoes & onions in a large pot. Pour salt over, press and let stand over night.
Next day, add sugar, vinegar and stir to mix with juices. Add in the pickling spice bag(s).
Boil 1&1/2hours to reduce liquid. Remove from heat.
Stir in mustard and cayenne thoroughly. Scoop into sterilized jars and process 12-15 min.
According to the web "5 lb equals 11.3 ( 11 1/3 ) cups" as related to chopped tomatoes, so the ratio of acid to fruit is much higher on your recipe, however, tomatoes likely are more acidic than watermelon rind, which would also factor into it.
I think I'd try g--gling a variety of "relish" recipes, and maybe search relative acid content of fruit/veggies used. After all, someone had to take a chance at some point when developing recipes. We don't want any dead permies, for sure, but we've also seem to have gone through a period of trying to convince people that meeting their food needs, has to depend on technology and big factories, and I've read about a number of recalls that have happened when some big factory or other screwed up! I think that with a reasonable amount of research, you could come up with a safety factor you're comfortable with. I know that when I've done something a little iffy, I've let the boiling water bath go 15 minutes instead of 10 and that was with the 500 ml bottles - the bigger the bottle, the longer to give it if you're experimenting.