On the side of business ethics that we are trying to develop with my friend, ethics that are built on mainly trust, integrity and empathy I am finding out how our culture contributes to people manipulating each other and in some way slowing down progress.
All the small businesses I am working with so far are people who I have relations with, which is how I would have known them, but I
started knowing them in the recent years of my life and because I am not as social, so we were kind of strangers to each other before my conscious effort to connect with people that I am now making.
So the
chicken lady is a distant aunt who is a stay home mum and she needed an income but had no money to work on the
project she had in mind. I talked to my friend, the one whose mission is to help small businesses and he was willing to help. My aunt has to give some small interest monthly. When the time for her to bring interest came she started talking about how she needed to send her children to school early and afterwards she will be occupied with church things, meaning there will be no time to meet with me. The agreement all of a sudden did not mean anything and to a certain extent because she is a relative I had to understand. Well I didn't and I was surprised that she found time to bring the money.
A few days later she talked about bringing back money from peanut butter sales she made. I had given her a case of peanut butter for her to sell, that I had taken on credit, hoping that she will add to her income and at the same time the peanut butter guy will have gotten a customer who would definitely pay on time for the peanut butter they would have taken. This was because I had assumed my aunt would be empathetic in how she would work with the peanut butter guy as well as with me. I ended up paying for the case. Like what I did with the peanut butter guy, I hope to work with her until she realizes how we are selfish without knowing.
I could be wrong but I found it selfish for my aunt to say she had school run and church as an excuse for not bringing her payment on time. What did she expect me to say to my friend whom I have to
answer to.