use a real sounding name - no edge cases please

https://permies.com/name.jsp

I like that the names on Permies seem like real names, even when they aren't. It's easier for me to build up a model of a real person behind their persona.

r ranson wrote:Having edge case names is making a lot of work for moderators of this site.  It's causing a slippery slope that isn't working.

I don’t understand why it matters what anyone calls themselves.
What is the slippery slope and where does it go?

Surely what one says/writes is far more important and significant?

Here is a painting that started off as a different painting.  Somebody bought a painting at a thrift shop for a dollar and then added something to it:



The first painter clearly liked landscapes.  Especially with some ocean in the background.  

The second painter clearly had a different vision.

Some people like the original better.  Some the hybrid.

I ran this site your way for a while and eventually got tired of accounts like "Goat Fucker7".  I decided to take the site to a new direction featuring real sounding names.  

I think of it as a sort of artistic choice.  


Everything you are saying is true.  And everything I am saying is also true.  

paul wheaton wrote:Here is a painting that started off as a different painting.  Somebody bought a painting at a thrift shop for a dollar and then added something to it:



The first painter clearly liked landscapes.  Especially with some ocean in the background.  

The second painter clearly had a different vision.

Some people like the original better.  Some the hybrid.

I ran this site your way for a while and eventually got tired of accounts like "Goat Fucker7".  I decided to take the site to a new direction featuring real sounding names.  

I think of it as a sort of artistic choice.  


Everything you are saying is true.  And everything I am saying is also true.  

Having no experience with group moderation or site ownership, I only have questions (hence I don’t have a “my way”). Moderation sounds difficult. Thanks for responding.

The painting either way is not my cup of tea, artistically. But it might be for others. It is illustrative though, especially if the discussed subject is something like ‘how power can behave regarding private property’ or ‘identifying nemeses in our Zones 1’.

The big point:


       we tried any names and i didn't like it.  And other people i liked didn't like it.


       we switched to "real sounding names".  I like the results and the people i like seem to like the results.



We decided to call it policy.  Good people rejoiced.  Nasty people went psycho and had their accounts like.  The site flourished.



You said

I don’t understand why it matters what anyone calls themselves.
What is the slippery slope and where does it go?

Surely what one says/writes is far more important and significant?

A lot of us like it this way.  It makes a flavor of community that we like.  And this flavor seems to repel some people that are rather hostile.  So that makes it even better.

paul wheaton wrote:The big point:


       we tried any names and i didn't like it.  And other people i liked didn't like it.


       we switched to "real sounding names".  I like the results and the people i like seem to like the results.



We decided to call it policy.  Good people rejoiced.  Nasty people went psycho and had their accounts like.  The site flourished.

Got it👍

a) This Site is Wonderful - including all the occasional kerfufflery over life-minutia like "foul language"  - Really, a Very subjective issue, and - in the Context of the 'Big Picture of Life' - So Not Important getting all upset over (In my Opinion..) Quite entertaining.

Same with this whole kerfuff over 'real names vs pseudonyms' - Not really sure Why it's So Hard for some people to Not grasp the "My House - My Rules" concept (that is to say, Your House, Your Ru... aww, you get it..  

As you astutely put it elsewhere - If Thoust Don't Liketh the manner in which Sir Wheaton and Staff are running The Castle - Please - feel Freeth to Go, thereforth - and D I Y.  (which is Not to be misinterpreted that I am covertly saying DIE, no - D I Y = "Do It Yourself" - which is just what I meant... Yep, Amen.

b) I have a suggestion for a 'Caption' for this Fine (Re)Work of Art:

paul wheaton wrote:

"Tic-Tac, Sir?"

That is all.

With the recent influx of accounts, here is a reminder on the real sounding name policy on Permies.

If you want to represent your organization, homestead, farm, or family, please do that via signature/biography and choose a name that sounds real for one person to have.

One person, one account.

Accounts "belonging" to couples only leads to confusion and drama.  

Although, I am loath to say this as couple accounts generally are focused on self promotion without giving back to the community they ask for help and usually end up getting banned for spammer, so couple names on an account is a good way to predict future behaviour.

So i probably shouldn't share this secret, but maybe these guys don't read this kind of guidelines thread, so it won't hurt..  And maybe one potential couple account will read it, understand, make two individual accounts, one each, promote their stuff, put link to stuff in signature, then each spend some time participating in the forums to earn good will and get even more views on their self promotion stuff.  And since they each spent 20 min a day, they get twice as many views.

Maybe one day.

bump

There's a small chance I could run into a neighbor or person from church here, who would recognize my name and offer advice, knowing more about the area we live in and vice-versa.

I only considered using an alias because I'm a woman and people still get confused about women with masculine names. This doesn't seem like the kind of group to stereotype people though.

Welcome to the forum!

"What's in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet"

From William Shakespeare's play Romeo and Juliet.