posted 1 year ago
My husband and I will never be minimalists, I mean I try to keep on top of the stuff, make sure we're sending things on their way to others when we don't need them, having friends and hopefully soon joining an intentional community of some kind so we can borrow things, and lend things, rather than owning everything we ever could use. But we still won't be minimalists, we camp, so there's stuff with that, we like pretty things, so there's a couple of kirio shelves full of it that aren't going away, we have lots of kitchen gadgets, because my husband cooks pretty much every night and loves his cooking gadgets, I run a vintage mall booth, so there's inventory which I move from home to the booth when things are bought there. We're currently in a 550 sq. ft. apartment, and we're growing out of it, and I'm not ashamed of that. We would love to have something anywhere between 600 and 800 sq. ft, I can't realistically see us growing out of that ever because there are only 2 of us and children will not be forthcoming, hence it will always be just us. I'm my grandmother's grandkid, I love beautiful things and get attached to them. But I also saw how her attachment to her stuff created issues for her later in life that didn't need to happen, its about balance and, even though we're growing out of our space here, I still feel I have a handle on it. She had a 5000 sq. ft. house, to give you some scale. And as regards my father, he's got a large house as well, though not that big, full of stuff, for him its not so much attachment that stops him from handling it, its feeling overwhelmed at where to start. Some of it he needs to keep because he continues to work and refuses to retire, but the rest of it is lack of motivation. I don't want to end up in a situation like either of my forebearers, so while I'll never be a minimalist I try to stay on top of things.
I do Celtic, fantasy, folk and shanty singing at Renaissance faires, fantasy festivals, pirate campouts, and other events in OR and WA, USA.
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