christoph Berger wrote:I feel that a lot of the supposed necessities of owning horses is just like the supposed necessities for human living conditions
I would tend to agree with you there.
Everyone raises their animals differently, and just because other horse owners don't do what I do doesn't mean they are wrong. However, it's my experience (20+ years owning horses) that the majority of horses don't need a lot of the things humans think they do. My general philosophy is that I raise my animals as naturally as possible, and then tweak it as necessary to keep the animal in good condition.
Horses were created to eat grass. In most situations, that translates to hay for at least part of the year. Their guts are not really designed to process grain, and the only reason to feed grain is if the horse is unable to maintain appropriate body condition on hay alone. That can happen for a variety of reasons, but the bottom line is that feeding grain really doesn't need to be an automatic thing. You're better off putting your money into providing free choice hay, and then add grain only if the horse needs it. Grain is expensive.
You can learn to do vaccinations, worming, and basic vet care yourself. You can also learn to trim hooves yourself. I'm not saying that these things don't take some training and skill, but any reasonably intelligent person can learn to do them if he or she wishes to. Depending on your personal situation and how often, if ever, your horse is exposed to other horses, you may be able to skip some vaccinations. I'm not recommending that for anyone else here, but that's been my experience.
You can also learn to read a horse's body language and train yourself. Again, not saying that it's just a matter of going out there and winging it. Just saying that you can learn to do it if you want to.
Horses don't do well alone, but they will usually be fine with goats or sheep as companions. They just need another herding animal to hang out with ... but it's a must. A lonely, depressed horse can be a nightmare to work with.
Obviously they need
shelter, but it doesn't have to be a huge, expensive barn. A run in that keeps them out of the weather is fine. In VT, you might want to invest in a blanket. You'll also need to figure out how you're going to deal with frozen water buckets.
However, I do share a lot of the concerns that have already been mentioned in this
thread. An inexperienced human needs an experienced horse. If the horse is inexperienced, then the human had better know what he's doing. Otherwise, you're looking at a recipe for disaster. A young horse needs to be despooked, have his instinct to get out of Dodge at the first sign of trouble controlled, and be taught manners, or he's going to seriously hurt someone. And that's all before he even learns his job. If you don't know how to do those things, you shouldn't get an untrained horse.
Keep in mind that if you get a young filly or colt, you'll be feeding it for anywhere from 2-3 years before you can really do anything with it. Obviously that varies with age, breed, and the type of work you want the horse to do, but keep in mind that horses are generally still growing until they're around 5 years old. I know there are a lot of people who would disagree with me, but I prefer to err on the side of caution, and I don't ask a horse under 4 years old to do any real work. If it's a colt, you'll also need to have him gelded, which will set you back a few hundred dollars.
But ... I get that you love horses, and you want one. I don't blame you. So go ahead and clear your pasture and start throwing some seed down. While you're waiting, find some way to get yourself around horses. If you're creative and determined, you can find someone in your area who can help you out. Learn as much as you can. Muck stalls and throw hay and turn the horse out and ride if you can. Be there when the vet and the farrier show up. Always ask WHY they are doing something ... as I said, everyone does it differently, and when you have your own horse you're going to have to decide how you want to care for and train it. IMHO, feeding 2 pounds of sweet feed per day because that's what so-and-so down the road said to do is not acceptable to me. I want to understand what's behind that practice and then decide if I want to do it or not.
If I can leave you with one strong recommendation, though, it's that a young horse is NOT a good idea for someone in your situation. You
should be able to find a well broke, gentle, older horse for not a whole lot of money these days ... they are a dime a dozen down here. Find one between 15 and 20 and you'll still have a lot of good years with that horse.