raven ranson wrote:Xisca, Is it possible it has something to do with the way it was said? Maybe it was said as if it was the only explanation instead of one way of understanding the situation.
I haven't read the post in question, but I do know it's caused a lot of negative response which is unusual for your posts. Perhaps what you said hit a nerve or didn't leave room for other people's ideas.
Burra Maluca wrote:I'm afraid your post is still far from meeting publication standards - a moderator is likely to contact you shortly to discuss the matter.
I suspect your professional training has narrowed your outlook somewhat as there are many, many naturally introverted people who are not damaged in any way. Your writing seems to exclude this possiblility and your edits have left the post worse than when it started.
raven ranson wrote:What about phrasing it like "one explanation for XYZ could be..." or "I've noticed that sometimes..." or "one theory I heard for this ...."
That way it leaves room for other peoples experiences and opinions.
Your posts are well thought out, just sometimes people experiences are different so it's good to phrase it as one of many explanations rather than a scientific fact.
Mick Fisch wrote:... Seems to me an arbitrary standard, ....